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Monday, July 20, 2009
Update 2 of 6
Hi Everyone! Wow, so much to say! We had an incredible first week with the orphans. I'm attaching photos and stories in hopes of bringing you to camp as you read this email. Biggest Slumber party ever! Bedtime stories, snacks, and late night talking. Hmmm... I wonder what topic the girls talked about? But I do know that the boys got in some good wrestling! Lots of fun! Reunited for a week!---- Last year we had about 350 orphans come to camp. So much pain, sorrow and tragedy in little hearts. One of those kids was a young boy named Billy. We wrote about him in our 09 magazine. (Read the full story here) During camp last year Billy asked his American buddy why no one had adopted him. It broke the volunteer to answer him, Billy followed up the question by telling his volunteer that Jesus had adopted him and not to worry. When He got back to the orphanage Billy ran away in hopes of finding us. After he spent a night and a day walking the streets and country-side of China, he arrived at camp. But camp was finished. And the desire he had to be reunited with his friends was met with disappointment. Eventually a student found him and called the orphanage to come pick him up. After waiting 1 year, Billy came to camp again this week!!! Here is an update from Sam Vidler, director of the camp that Billy attended: "Billy's week was a rollercoaster - as many ups and downs, twists and turns, and always going at full speed. He arrived knowing what camp was about, and jumped straight into it. However, there are many aspects of Billy's life that are tumultuous, and we had the challenge and the privilege to work through some of these. He left camp knowing that he is truly loved, and the darkness he has experienced in parts of his young life, can have a new light shed upon them." ----------- I Hate my Parents! I think everyone can understand when an orphan says, "I hate my parents!" One girl told her translator about why she has no feet. When her mom abandoned her, she left her in the snow. By the time someone found her, she had frostbite so badly that the doctor had to amputate both her feet. Because of her mom she has to spend the rest of her life in a wheel chair. So it breaks my heart to hear them say, "I hate my parents." But how can you tell them that hate and bitterness will poison their life? That they need to forgive and try to move on? I hope in some small way that we encouraged them this week. Also, I felt like this was a challenge for all of us that do have parents. If you bitter at your parents: FORGIVE & APPRECIATE THEM! Most likely they didn't leave you out in the snow. And there are many orphans that would rather have the parents you have than the employees that take care of them. Fan Fan --- This was Fan Fan's second time coming to camp. Because of difficulties, she had to go back to the orphanage in 2008. This year, the staff in Xian perservered through some incredible challanges. And this year she stayed for the who week at camp. Here's an update from Sam Vidler. Fan Fan - this is a girl who has developmental delay and difficulties with relationships, and the concentrated schedule of camp brought some of these out. But through G's amazing power, and pr*yer, her week turned around, so that by the end, although her participation in large group activities had to be reduced, she had the time of her life. She literally transformed overnight (Tuesday night to be precise) from a girl who was wailing, sullen, trying to bite others, to hugging the staff and smiling all day. Incredible to see! --------- Photos from Kunming Camp: --------- From my blog: David gets athletes foot? ------ This week my feet started itching really bad. The first thought that came to my mind was Athletes foot! And oh no, I can't tell anyone. I'll be labeled. My friends and family will constantly be making sure that I don't spread the disease. They won't want to wear my sandals. They'll make me clean the shower with bleach... etc. Then I started thinking about the orphans. They are labeled. And for them it means a lot more than athletes foot. Their label can determine their future: Where they work. Where they live. What schooling they get. What love they experience. All because of a stupid label. Mustache???? ----- No Sharpies---- Cupping! ----- I walked into our office the other day and it smelled like smoke. A bunch of the staff were sitting around with the following items. - A Lighter - Glass cups - Paper As soon as they saw me they started shouting at me to sit down and experience Chinese medicine. At first I was confused. Then they explained... Light a piece of paper, stick it in the cup, and then quickly jam the cup with the fire in it against a part of your body. The fire burns up the oxygen and sucks your skin and muscle into the cup. I looked over and saw one of the Chinese staff members with a huge burn on his back. They told me that they had learned from their mistakes. It wouldn't happen again. I was looking for a reason to leave the office but one of the girls was sitting there with half her leg sucked into the cup and smiling. Of course I couldn't leave. They lit the fire and shoved it into the cup. Just as they stuck the cup on my leg my little brother told me not to flinch or it would let more oxygen in and burn more. Well, I didn't flinch. But... the rim of the cup was burning hot. My skin cinched and I started yelling at the staff member. Which just mixed with everyone's laughing. Afterward I felt really lucky compared to my friend. Only slight burns and blisters on my leg and arm. Here's my friend's burn- Group photos --- More Photos: --- http://www.flickr.com/photos/jasonboltphotography/ facebook.com/bringmehope Closing: As I shared in the last update, Bring Me Hope came REALLY close to closing this summer. So many crazy phone calls, emails, and news reports along the way. But here we are in China, and more kids arrive tomorrow. It seems that every year the same thing is true, "Camp is disaster after disaster that ends in something beautiful!" This last week we covered the kids in love. Hugs, kisses, I love you's, and for the boys, wrestling :>) When they got on the bus to go home, they KNEW without a doubt that they were loved. They had a need to be loved and they soaked it up. It made me think about how God is sooooo willing to love us too, but often we don't think we need His love. I pray that this week you need His love and know it! Good Times, -David
Phone: 760-723-5885 Email: david@bringmehope.org Address: 2169 Green Canyon Rd. Fallbrook, Ca 92028
My Story
Have you ever had something unexpected happen to you? Growing up in a small community my goal was to build my own house and get married as soon as possible. Neither of those things happened, but that was my dream. I didn't care much about people outside of Fallbrook, and really didn't think about orphans. But when my parents adopted from China God began to change my heart. The desire to start helping orphans led me to volunteer in China for a summer teaching preschool for orphans. This was the best summer of my life, and also the summer that Bring Me Hope began.
Who is Bring Me Hope:
I decided that I'm really tired of trying to pretend that we are a huge organization. We are a small team of about 10 people that want to help orphans. And that's our story. Our office doesn't have an elevator, a phone system with extension numbers, or a room full of cubicles. We have one phone line (which we unplug when we want to send a fax) and our office used to be a guest house that we converted into a work area. Currently, I work at a Costco plastic table and have a thick piece of wood setup to support the weight of the monitors.
We are Christians and believe that God created every person with value. It breaks our hearts when children are rejected, abandoned, and abused. Their reality is that no one is coming for them. They have no mom or dad or family. And I imagine that you would feel pretty lonely all by yourself. We want to use the amount of time we have on Earth to change that as best as we can. We want to find little girls and boys that are down on life and pick them up and look at them in the eyes and tell them that they have value and they are loved.
Originally I thought that starting an orphanage would be the best way for us to help orphans. But some amazing doors opened for us to become an organization that runs summer camps for Chinese orphans. I'll always remember one of the very first camps we organized. An orphan named Ben spent the day with us playing simple games, singing, and making a craft. At the end of the day he told us that our day with him was the best day of his life. (Click here to read more about Ben and our exploration trip)
Ben's day with us turned into more camps and more orphanages wanting to send children which led to a need for more volunteers. People that would be willing to take a 1 or 2 week trip to be a camp counselor. So as you finish reading, please consider coming to China. I guarantee, if you come to camp and risk loving an orphan, you will never be the same.
Activities: I LOVE river rafting but don't get to go that often. Wakeboarding & air chair, body-surfing, and anything with water. Playing volleyball, soccer & paintball. Passions: Seeing lives changed by God! Family, orphans, experiencing God. Education: Bachelors and masters in Organization Leadership from Biola University Favorite Music: Newsboys, Matt Redman, Jack Johnson, Switchfoot, Adie, Crowder, Phil Wickham, Fernando Ortega Favorite books: 1. THE Book 2. Practicing the Presence of God- Because it shows loving God with everything! 3. Living Loving and Learning- Because it shows loving others with everything!
Favorite Quotes: "But Jesus said, "Let the children come to me. Don't stop them! For the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to such as these." - Jesus
“I consider myself as the most miserable of all human beings, covered with sores, foul, and guilty of all sorts of crimes committed against my King; moved by sincere remorse I confess all my sins to him. I ask him pardon and abandon myself into his hands so he can do with me as he pleases. Far from chastising me, this King, full of goodness and mercy, lovingly embraces me, seats me at his table, waits on me himself, gives me the keys to his treasures, and treats me in all things as his favorite; he converses with me and takes delight in me in countless ways, without ever speaking of forgiveness or taking away my previous faults. Although I beg him to fashion me according to his heart, I see myself still weaker and miserable, yet ever more caressed by God. This is what I see from time to time while in his holy presence.” -Brother Lawrence
"It is the weak people who are cruel. Gentleness can only be expected from the strong." -From Living, Loving, Learning
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